The tables are turned now because you could actually be too adaptable rather than overly stubborn. Perhaps you are just tired of struggling and have little patience to explain your stated position. However, too much flexibility might get in the way of your happiness now. You must take the credit or the blame for your present condition, but don't waste your energy regretting previous actions. The time to hesitate is through; let go of your past so you can welcome your future with open arms.